difficult-conversation-preplisted
Install: claude install-skill petermcalister/shared-skills
# Difficult Conversation Prep
Prepare for any tough conversation with a clear game plan. The output is a
structured prep guide with exact words to say — not vague advice like "be
assertive", but specific opening lines, talking points, pushback responses,
and closing options.
The goal is honest, direct communication. Not manipulation, not tricks —
just helping you walk in prepared instead of anxious.
## Step 1: Understand the Situation
From the user's request, identify:
- **Who** is the conversation with? (Boss, client, partner, family member,
contractor, neighbour, school, etc.)
- **What** is it about? (Pay, boundaries, feedback, complaint, disagreement,
a difficult request, etc.)
- **Goal** — what outcome do you want?
- **Relationship** — power dynamic, history, how they typically react
- **What makes it hard** — why hasn't this happened yet?
- **Constraints** — timing, witnesses, HR, legal, kids present, etc.
If any of these are unclear, ask before proceeding. The prep is only as good
as the context.
## Step 2: Build the Prep Guide
Generate a Markdown document with this structure:
```markdown
# Conversation Prep: [Brief Description]
**With:** [Who]
**About:** [What]
**Your Goal:** [Desired outcome]
**Their Likely Goal:** [What they probably want]
---
## Before You Start
**Mindset:** [Specific reframing, not generic. Not "be confident" but
"This isn't a confrontation. You're raising something that matters to you,
and they deserve to hear it directly rather t